Chasing Excellence

Chasing Excellence

Love Your Spouse First

Daily Chase #243

Apr 22, 2026
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a silhouette of a man and a woman holding a baby
Photo by Richard Sagredo on Unsplash

The advice sounds controversial, maybe even selfish: Prioritize your spouse over your kids.

We’re taught the opposite. Kids come first. Always. You’d run into traffic for them. You’d sacrifice anything. Your marriage becomes a team effort to serve them.

But here’s what happens when you make your kids the center of every…

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