There's a crucial distinction between being right and being effective.
When we're reactive or operating on autopilot, what we're often trying to do is preserve our feeling of rightness – maintain the safety that comes from feeling like we understand something completely.
But being effective, especially in relationships, often means setting aside our desi…
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