Redefining Success: The Path to Personal Excellence

4 steps to chase excellence better

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Apr 08, 2024

Many have been conditioned and taught to believe success lies in achieving external goals - wealth, status, and recognition.

If you’ve been listening to the show long enough, you know that’s not right.

Excellence is not about obsessively pursuing a singular endeavor. It’s about building a life of passion, balance, purpose, joy, and well-being.

We can realign our priorities by redefining excellence and live a more meaningful and satisfying life.

Step 1: Shift Your Mindset from "More" to "Better"

Understand the evolutionary drive for "bigger, next, and more." Our biology hardwired us to chase these external markers of success because they once enhanced our chances of survival. But in today's world, where our basic needs are largely met, this drive no longer serves us.
Recognize that external achievements don't equate to fulfillment. You may have an impressive job, fancy car, and lavish house, but if you're not living a life of purpose and contentment, these material possessions won't bring true happiness. They’ll only leave you wanting more, perpetually waiting until they become enough.
Shift your focus from acquiring "more" to becoming a "better" version of yourself. Instead of chasing the next promotion or pay raise, prioritize personal growth, self-awareness, and inner peace.
Avoid common pitfalls: Many people mistakenly believe that success is defined by what others envy or that external validation will bring lasting fulfillment. However, true excellence comes from within.

Step 2: Discover Your Passion and Purpose

Identify what sets your heart on fire. Reflect on the activities, causes, or pursuits that inspire enthusiasm and a sense of purpose. These are likely aligned with your true passions.
Consider how you can positively impact humanity. True excellence isn't just about personal achievements but also about making the world a better place. It’s nearly impossible to be unsatisfied when you know you are helpful.
Explore ways to align your passion with your purpose. Brainstorm how to use your unique talents and interests to contribute to something larger than yourself.
Avoid common mistakes: Many people settle for unfulfilling careers or pursuits because they believe it's too late to change course or their passions can't translate into a viable career. However, with creativity and perseverance, you can often find a way to merge your passions and purpose.

Step 3: Prioritize Holistic Well-being

Understand that health is the foundation. You can't fully thrive or contribute to the world without caring for your physical, mental, and emotional well-being. Your health should be a top priority.
Strive for balance across all areas of life. Excellence isn't about excelling in one area while neglecting others. Aim to maintain harmony between your relationships, work, personal growth, and self-care.
Practice self-compassion and self-love. True excellence isn't about relentless self-criticism or pushing yourself to the brink. It's about treating yourself with kindness and respect.
Avoid common pitfalls: Many people mistakenly believe that self-care is selfish or that pushing themselves to the limit is the key to success. However, burnout and imbalance will ultimately undermine your ability to thrive.

Step 4: Continuously Evolve and Grow

Embrace a growth mindset. Excellence isn't a fixed destination but an ongoing journey of learning, evolving, and becoming the best version of yourself.
Seek out opportunities for personal and professional development. Invest in your growth by taking courses, reading books, or seeking out mentors who can challenge and expand your perspective.
Reflect and course-correct regularly. Periodically assess whether your current path aligns with your passions, purpose, and values. Be willing to make adjustments as needed.
Avoid common mistakes: Many people get stuck in their comfort zones or resist change because it's unfamiliar or uncomfortable. However, stagnation will ultimately lead to dissatisfaction and a lack of fulfillment.

Embrace this new definition of excellence, and you'll find that true success and satisfaction come not from external validation but from living a life aligned with your deepest values and aspirations.